Neither aggressive nor submissive… Remove the ‘I’, ‘my’ and ‘I am’. Remove all the identifications with different qualities of names and forms. Realize selflessness or oneness. Perform actions without attachment and renounce the fruit of actions. Actions are being performed from a mind that is free from ignorance, egoism, attachment, identification, craving, aversion, desire or intention, judgment, expectation, fear and worry.