When the passionate egoistic mind coming in contact with something or someone that the mind perceives as good, beautiful, kind and loving, it will fall in love with that something or someone. When this something or someone that the mind fell in love with is hurt or gone, this mind will feel hurt, sad and angry. This mind will be missing this something or someone that it fell in love with when this something or someone is absent or unavailable.
Compassionate mind doesn’t fall in love with anything or anyone, but loves all selflessly and unconditionally, as they are.
Need not falling in love with the objects and beings no matter how good, beautiful, kind and loving they are. But love the objects and beings unconditionally, as they are, regardless of whether they are being good, beautiful, kind and loving, or not.
Need not be hurt, sad or angry when the objects and beings are hurt or gone.
Need not missing the objects and beings when they are absent or unavailable.